Picture this: someone close to you is tying the knot and you’re excited to share their special day with them. You’ve sorted your outfit and all other logistics for the event: now, all that’s left is to write a message in their card.
What should you write? You want to give a message that’s heartfelt without being too heavy-handed; that comes across as sincere rather than soppy. Don’t worry: we’ve got you covered. Here’s some wedding message ideas to help get you inspired.
Contents
Wedding card messages for your children
What to put in a wedding card for family
What to write a wedding card for a friend
Wedding card messages for colleagues
Tips for writing wedding card messages
Wedding card messages for your children
These sorts of messages tend to tug on the heartstrings. Don’t shy from that, we say: lean in to how you’re feeling and put it onto paper.
I can’t tell you how happy I am to see you marrying the love of your life, your forever partner. I wish you a rich life together, full of love and laughter.
It feels like yesterday that I was picking you up from school, and now you’re walking down the aisle with the love of your life. I couldn’t be happier for you.
I’m so proud of you and the person you’ve become. You deserve every bit of love and happiness that comes your way.
May your marriage be a source of strength, love and comfort, for many years to come. I wish you both nothing but the deepest love and happiness.
You’re such a warm and loving person, and I’m so happy that you’ve found your match: someone who will be your partner, who will be there for you forever. I’m so proud of you and happy that I get to spend this special day with you.
Welcome to married life! It’s a truly beautiful thing, and I’m so happy that you’ve found the right person to grow old with. I love you both.
They say that love is patient and kind—and that also describes the two of you. I’m so glad you found your forever person.
It’s been the biggest joy of my life to watch you grow up and into the person you are. And now, I am so happy you’ve found someone to share your life with.
We have been so lucky to be your parents and now, we are excited to welcome your new forever partner into our family. Wishing you nothing but a lifetime of love.
We can’t think of a better partner for you, nor a better person to welcome into our family. You two are made for each other and we’re so glad you found each other. We can’t wait to make memories with you over the years.
What to put in a wedding card for family
Your message might vary in tone and content depending on how close you are to this family member. Here’s a few ideas to get you started.
My big sister! Huge congratulations that you’ve found your person. You two are perfect together and I can’t wait to hang out with you both more.
Congratulations, you’re not going to die alone! Happy for you. But seriously, you’ve got a lifelong partner for getting takeaway and watching Netflix, which is something to celebrate. Big love to you both on your special day.
I remember when we were kids and you were always clumsy, often late or making a mess somewhere. But now you’re all grown up, marrying the person of your dreams, getting ready to enjoy a lifetime of love. I’m so happy for you.
I’m so excited for you to be marrying your person! All my love and best wishes for many happy years together.
Auntie, I’m so happy that you’ve found the perfect partner. Wishing you all the best.
It’s a joy to see you so happy, marrying the love of your life. Congratulations on finding your soulmate.
Here’s to a beautiful and exciting future. I’m so happy that you’ve found the right person and I wish you a long and happy marriage.
I love you both so much, I’m so happy you’ve found each other. Thank you for having me to share in your special day.
May you bring each other joy and happiness, for as long as you both live. I love you both. Here’s to a lifetime of love.
Today our family got bigger (and better!) and I couldn’t be happier. My love and best wishes to you both.
What to write in a wedding card for a friend
You might have a bit more leeway to lean into humour here. But, as always, your message and tone should depend on your relationship with the bride or groom.
It’s your wedding day! I almost can’t believe it—but then I see you two together and it all makes perfect sense. I love you both loads and wish you a lifetime of happiness!
At uni, we could barely get organised enough to take care of ourselves, let alone hold down a healthy relationship! But look at you now: tying the knot with the love of your life. You deserve it and I’m so happy for you.
Since when are we adults who do serious things like getting married? You two are perfect for each other and I’m so excited for your next chapter. Loads of love.
Thanks for the free booze and food! But seriously, I’m so happy that I was able to share this special day with you both—you’re made for each other. All my love.
You two are living proof that true love exists! I’m so happy for you, to share today with you, and to be your friend. Congratulations, you’re married!
What an amazing day for two beautiful people! Congratulations on tying the knot, I wish you both nothing but the best.
You two are the definition of soulmates. It’s a beautiful thing to see. I hope you have a wonderful, love-filled life together.
You’ve always been a romantic and I’m happy that you found your dream person! Tonnes of love for the two of you today, congratulations again.
You’ve always been like a sibling to me and I’m so happy to see that you’ve found someone who will love and support you forever. I love you both.
I remember when you first met! It felt special then and since, it’s been such a joy to watch your relationship grow. And now you’ve tied the knot! You’re made for each other, married life is going to look so good on you.
Wedding card messages for colleagues
These might be a little more casual.
Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness together.
Here’s to many more years together!
All the very best to you and your new spouse!
You’re such a warm and lovely person, and I’m so happy to see that you’ve found a wonderful partner.
I’m so happy to be sharing this special day with you. Wishing you a lifetime of love.
All my love to your and your person, today and always. You’re married, congratulations!
A lifetime of love begins today. Congratulations!
Thank you so much for inviting me to share this wonderful day with you. All my best for a long and happy marriage.
Sure you’ve found your soulmate, but what’s their elevenses game like? I wish you both a lifetime of perfectly-brewed tea and exceptional biscuits.
What are we going to chat about at work now that your wedding is all done? Jokes aside, it’s been a joy to share today with you and see you marry the love of your life. All my best wishes.
Tips for writing wedding card messages
Still feeling stuck? Here’s some tips to get you going.
Be honest
Your message is a chance for you to share your well wishes but also express your own feelings about the day: how much you love the happy couple, how touched you are that you’re sharing this day with them.
Write down all the things you want to say and then edit down, pulling out the strongest sentiment or the most important thing that you want to tell them. Trust us: it’s much easier to sift through your thoughts once you put them on paper.
Keep it short
Your wedding card message is important but it’s not meant to be an essay. A few sentences is absolutely fine—while a few paragraphs is probably the limit. It’s meant to be a short, sincere and meaningful message that captures your warm wishes. Focus on saying a few things really well.
Don’t give unsolicited advice
Generally speaking, it’s best to avoid giving unsolicited advice in a wedding card. For one: the message should be about the happy couple and their exciting future, not a reminder of things that could possibly go wrong. And secondly, by offering advice rather than well-wishes, you risk making the message about you rather than them.
Lighthearted sentiments, like “don’t forget to share the remote!”, can be fine depending on your relationship. Only include things like that if you’re sure it will land well.
The perfect wedding venue
Wedding cards are just one part of the special day: there’s also food, drink, entertainment and speeches—and, of course, a dance floor.
But perhaps the most important factor of all is the wedding venue itself. As well as forming the backdrop for the festivities, you want a space where your guests feel comfortable and cared for, and that truly makes the day feel magical.
Kindred is a West London wedding venue known for our unique interiors, warm service and excellent food. Our spaces are elegant and welcoming, blending modern and heritage styles. They can accommodate celebrations of all sizes, from intimate weddings to parties of up to 180.
Cellar, our on-site Hammersmith restaurant will also be at your disposal. You’ll have access to an expertly-stocked private bar, too.
Have a read of our wedding brochure to learn more. You can also take a virtual tour of our building or come to visit us in person—just get in touch with us to arrange it. We would be delighted to bring your dream wedding to life.
