Is it okay to wear black to a wedding?

Because it’s traditionally associated with mourning, wearing black to a wedding was once seen as disrespectful (and just plain bad luck!). But times have changed. Today, you’d be totally fine to wear black to most weddings.

“Most” is the key word here. The dress code, the happy couple’s culture, wedding location and time of year should all factor into your outfit choice. Sometimes, black might not be the best choice—would you want to wear a formal black ballgown to a beach wedding in July?—while other times, it simply wouldn’t be appropriate.

Here’s what to keep in mind when putting together your wedding look.

Should you wear black to a wedding?

In most cases: yes, absolutely. Black is no longer reserved for those in mourning—and in fact, that tradition had fallen out of fashion by the 1920s. In 1926, Coco Chanel brought us the famous little black dress: a chic and practical number that anyone could wear.

Since then, black has become a staple colour in most people’s wardrobes. And it’s easy to see why: black is elegant, sophisticated and versatile, and is perfectly suitable for both casual and formal affairs.

Plus, because it’s a neutral tone, there’s plenty of ways to accessorise your outfit to brighten it up and add character. Think jewellery, shoes, wraps, or bags—or whatever else tickles your fancy.

When should you not wear black to a wedding?

You shouldn’t wear it if the couple has specifically requested that you don’t. They might have a dress code asking guests to wear bright colours or follow a specific theme, for example.

Also, black is associated with death and mourning in some cultures. For example, in Indian and Chinese culture. So, depending on how traditional the wedding is, it may not be appropriate to wear black. It’s best to check the wedding invite—or ask the couple—to be sure.

Can you wear a black dress to a summer wedding?

If it’s appropriate to the couple’s culture and works with the dress code—go for it.

However, the summer heat and location of the wedding might make black a little uncomfortable to wear. Remember that black absorbs heat, so you might feel a bit warm and heavy. But if you’re set on a black outfit, opting for a lighter fabric could be a great shout.

Can you wear a black suit to a wedding?

You sure can! In fact, if it’s a formal affair, wearing a black suit is a safe and popular choice.

Again, there’s a few caveats here. If the dress code specifically says no black, or if black isn’t appropriate to the couples’ culture, choose a different outfit.

And just because your suit is black, it doesn’t mean that you can’t include a pop of colour. You could go for a tie or pocket square in a rich olive green, burgundy, or perhaps a dusty pink—or whatever you feel great in, really!

Think about the vibe of the wedding and what you’ll feel comfortable in, too. In the height of summer, you might not want to be sweating in your thick black jacket, next to your friends who went for lighter, breezy numbers. And if the event is relaxed, a formal black tux might be overkill. The wedding invite should specify the dress code—ask if you’re not sure.

Can you wear white and black to a wedding?

Generally speaking, this is considered absolutely fine. You’d probably want to avoid wearing an all-white outfit that could be mistaken for a wedding dress, though.

A white-and-black look would mostly be okay, however in some cultures (like Indian and Chinese culture) these colours are both traditionally associated with death and mourning. So, wearing them may be read as a sign of disrespect or bad luck. However, if your outfit also incorporates other colours as well, you might be fine.

If you’re not sure, you can always check in with the happy couple.

Your wedding venue

Now imagine that you’re wearing your dream outfit in a beautiful, Grade II-Listed building in the heart of West London.

Blending heritage and modern styles, Kindred is a West London wedding venue that attracts couples who are down to earth but like the finer things. We have an on-site restaurant and private bars on every floor of our building—so that no matter what sort of celebration you have in mind, your guests will be extremely well cared for.

Across the three floors of our building, we have spaces for festivities of all sizes: from intimate, cosy affairs to bigger, late-night dance parties.

We have top-of-the-range AV facilities and are perfectly equipped to host live music. In fact, we can even help you find the perfect act.

Take a virtual tour of our building or check out our wedding brochure for more information. If you’d like to come and visit us in person, get in touch with our friendly events team to arrange it. We’d be delighted to bring your dream wedding to life.